there is nothing romantic about
- not knowing you’re beautiful
- loving someone until they learn to love themselves
please stop romanticizing low self esteem.
it’s one thing to love a person who happens to have low self esteem
it’s another thing to frame low self esteem as a desirable trait.
my cat has been staring at this gopher for like 10 minutes I think he’s waiting to kill him until he finishes digging how polite
he’s letting him dig his own grave
…oh

Josephine “Jo” Grant, my favourite companion. ♥
(You don’t want to know how long it took me to do this.)
He had too much happiness!
When people ask how I can like the original series and not TNG because “TOS is so hammy” I tell them that’s why I love it.
Ok, no offence to anyone, but I have to say something. One, porn is not an area I’m very familiar with, but I have gotten the impression most main stream porn is not targeted to women, let alone queer women (whether that’s all porn is or could be is a question I can’t discuss due to lack of info).
However, watching this video the laughter stuck in my throat because it seems like it’s trying to define what a “real lesbian” should or could like. “If you’re a lesbian that means you wouldn’t like penetration quite so much” says a person proclaimed as a “gold star lesbian” by the video. Granted, don’t know whose decision that badge was, but still, no one person can be the expert of the experiences of everyone with the same identification. And the general proclamation that “lesbian porn is not made for lesbians” and it’s description as “gross”… cannot comment on accuracy, but it seemed based on a rather small amount of data.
In conclusion, just because you don’t know people who get off on X doesn’t mean no one in the world does. So can we not erase them in advance. Thanks.


